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Hi All,

I was thinking about lot on what should be the best New Year Gift that I can distribute on TOUCHPOINT blog.

Thoughts went... what is important and most precisious for all of us.?? Wondered for so many days and back of the mind thinking about. We interact with society at Shopping mall, Offices, Marriages... lot many things comes in mind. We - Pepole buy..sell...bargain...compare...anything and everything.

Good Job....???... Good Wife...Kids ??? Money...Wealth.....?? Happiness...?? Good Health...?? Fame..?? No.... No... No... Few have one of the above and other have multiples. Why we must compromise with one or several ??

Time is the one which is above all of these desirable things. God has limited Time for everyone of us - Living as well as non living being on life.

I put my thoughts on this finally and became more crystalise as I came across article from CSO featuring Dr. Donald Wetmore's "Top Five Best Time Management Practices".

I took permission from Dr. Donald to share his Five Funamentals of Time Management Rules. This rules need to be used as Five friends which are like with you as your 5 day Working Week. Before starting the article from Dr. Donald, let me brief about him. (Thanks Don for real quick approval).

Dr. Donald E. Wetmore is adjunct professor for the Master of Business Administration program at Mercy College in Dobbs Ferry, New York, and the author of Beat the Clock and Organizing Your Life. In 1984, he created the Productivity Institute to conduct his original and unique Time Management and Personal Productivity seminars for organizations around the world. You can reach him at ctsem@msn.com. If these ideas were helpful, he has an additional article, "Top Five Best Time Management Practices." It's free. If you would like a copy, e-mail your request for "Top Five" to ctsem@msn.com.

In my 30 years as a Time Management speaker and consultant, I have observed a lot of what we can and should not do to increase our daily results. Time management is not necessarily working harder, but rather, smarter.

And to accomplish significantly more in our days, we need not increase our efforts. For example: in a horserace, the first horse may earn a $50,000 purse and the second horse may earn a $25,000 purse. The first horse gets twice as much money as the second horse, not because it ran twice as far or twice as fast. It might have been only a nose ahead of the competition.

So it is with our daily results. We need not run twice as fast or put in twice the effort to significantly increase our daily success. We only need to be a nose ahead of where we already are. We are all productive in our days. We would not survive the demands of this world if we were not. The real challenge is how much more productive can we become?

A lot of our time management has to do more with what we are not doing than what we are doing. Sometimes our mistakes and omissions will keep us from running at a full pace.

The Five Don’ts
There are the top five time management mistakes we should all avoid to help increase our daily success both on and off the job, in less time and with less stress.

1. Start your day without a plan of action. You will begin your day by responding to the loudest voice (the squeaky wheel gets the grease) and spend it in a defensive mode, responding to other people's and events' demands. The tail will wag the dog. If there is a void of leadership in your time management life, someone will fill that void. It's not that others are bad people, but they will take all of your time if you let them. You will have worked hard but may not have done enough of the right things. Time management is not doing the wrong things quicker. That just gets us nowhere faster. Time management is doing the right things.
2. Get out of balance in your life. Our lives are made up of Seven Vital Areas: health, family, financial, intellectual, social, professional and spiritual. We will not necessarily spend time every day in each area or equal amounts of time in each area. But, if in the long run, we spend a sufficient quantity and quality of time in each area, our lives will be in balance. If we neglect any one area, never mind two or three, we will eventually sabotage our success. Much like a table: if one leg is longer than the rest, it will make the entire table wobbly. If we don't take time for health, our family life and social life are hurt. If our financial area is out of balance, we will not be able to focus adequately on our professional goals, and so on.
3. Work with a messy desk or area. Studies have shown that the person who works with a messy desk spends, on average, one-and-a-half hours per day looking for things or being distracted by things. That's seven-and-a-half hours per week. (It's the reverse of "Out of sight-out of mind." In sight, in mind.) And, it's not a solid block of an hour and a half, but a minute here and a minute there. Like a leaky hot water faucet that goes drip, drip, drip, it doesn't seem like a major loss, but at the end of the day, we're dumping gallons of hot water that we are paying to heat down the drain. If you have ever visited the office of a top manager, typically, that person is working with a clean desk environment. Many would attribute this practice to that person's access to other staff members. While there may be some truth in that conclusion, in most cases, if we went back some years in that person's career, they probably were working with a clean desk back then, which gave them the focus they needed to become promoted to where they are today.
4. Don't get enough sleep. Studies show that nearly 75 percent of us complain on a regular basis that we are flat-out tired. Most people get the quantity of sleep, but lack the quality of sleep. Their days are filled with so much stress, that they are out of control, and they find it difficult to get a full night's sleep. (Others simply do not allow for a sufficient quantity of sleep.) If you plan your day, then work your plan, you will get more done, feel a higher sense of accomplishment, and experience less stress so you can enjoy a more restful night's sleep.
5. Don't take a lunch break. Many work through lunch in the hope that it will give them more time to produce results. Studies have shown it may turn just the opposite. After doing what we do for several hours, we start to dull out. Sure, we can work through lunch and be productive, but that is not the issue. The issue is "how much more" productive we can be. A lunch break, even a short 15-minute break, gives us a chance to get our batteries all charged up again to more effectively handle the afternoon's challenges. We are then less likely to procrastinate a few of those difficult tasks that, in the long run, will make a positive difference in our personal productivity.

Hope you would have liked your Smart Five Friends.

After reading above, I felt "Work Smart and Not Hard" and "Time is money... Invest it Intelligently".